How to be happy. Love Agape

The happiness - this is one of the greatest mysteries of mankind. Each of us is more than just try to be happy, and if not impossible - then convince yourself and others that there is no objective happiness in nature or everyone has it different. Hence the confusion - because unhappy people try to teach how to become happy based on their experience. One says - "The secret of happiness is..." another - "The essence of happiness is..." Everyone wants to find the secret of happiness... but not all are successful.
In fact, all people are not that different. We all need one for breathing - oxygen. And in order to be happy and make others happy we all need the same thing!

What is good - family faithfulness or free love?

What is good - family faithfulness or free love?

I will pretend that I don't have my opinion yet :)

More difficult question: our target is happiness or satisfaction?
Ok, what is happiness? Why happiness is good? Why good is good :p ?
And finally what is our reason to live? :)

They say us now thеsе are unanswerable questions...

Lets think, first: "family faithfulness or free love" is the same question with what to choose happiness or satisfaction. We can see here that satisfaction and happiness is not the same and even looks like a kind of opposite things. If to be critical need to admit that this consectary is objective and comes from Christian (Muslim too) tales where satisfaction on Earth appears bad and causes stranglings after death. Why it can cause strangling - nobody hurry to answer us, yes..?

But even if happiness is good and satisfaction is bad, why good is good and bad is bad?
What does  make difference?

Here is Theological answer (I will pretend I don't know it) but let's avoid it now... But then we comes to a need of to have some axioms. Good is good and it supports life and happiness. Bad is bad and it drives to deaths, pain and struggling.
Happiness actually appeared in our axiom but indeed needs explanation. What is happiness. It's not just a life, obviously. I think it's Love... But how do you think? Put in comments, please!!!

Maxim Vasilkov 

Your child upbringing - must remember (from Maria Montessori)

1. If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
2. If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
3. If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
4. If a child lives with pity, he learns to feel sorry for himself.
5. If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
6. If a child lives with jealousy, he learns to feel envy.
7. If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
8. If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
9. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident.
10. If a child lives with praise, he learns to be appreciative.
11. If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love.
12. If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves..
13. If a child lives with honesty, he learns what truth is.
14. If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
15. If children live with recognition, they learn to have a goal.
16. If children live with sharing, they learn to be generous.
17. If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself and those about him.
18. If a child lives with friendliness, he learns the world is a nice place in which to live.
     
    Maxim Vasilkov

Mom in cube!

I'm a mother of natural triplets

I am a mother of triplets, I have three beautiful little daughters: Anna, Maria and Victoria.

This is my first record and familiarity with the site, I would like to find interesting new friends and just have a good time))

I'll try to tell you my daughters story but not all at once...;)

Irina Vasilkova 

Triplet's first New Year (it was 2011)

Finally in my hands a laptop with photos)))) New Year we met quietly in our family circle. 31 is Preparation, cleaning, cooking....
Than Romantic New Year's Eve with my husband and kids slept peacefully through the night. :)
In time kids don't sleep - we exchanged gifts. Kids were delighted with their gifts, but actually rather to say opening of the gifts :) All was quiet in our home as we like. In such moments I feel like family is only true happiness, we need to thank God who gives us all these things. I think it's important appreciate what you have...

And I decided to try to take pictures of girls with all the relatives. A sort of a mini presentation for grandparents, aunts and uncles ...

And now the photos))))

Irina Vasilkova

Family idyll

Photosession with triplets in a sunset.

It's one of my favorite photo session with my triplets babies girls. These photos were made by my husband. Near a place where we lived first years. It's was end of September and triplets babies was 5 month old.

Enjoying!

Triplets's mother